Communication Skills (18)

-to be a good leader,you must be a good connector and for that purpose you must develop you communication skills

-getting to the top as a leader without connecting with other people at best allows us to lead people without their allegiance

-here are some tips to be a good connector:-

~1~ Good connector think horizontal---focused on moving over to where other people are.

~2~ Good connector focus on relationship---more focused on relationships and building bridges.

~3~ Good  connector value cooperation---see working together as a win

~4~ Good connector seek partnerships---create really high-powered team

~5~ Good connector build consensus---more concerned with getting everyone to work together

~6~ Good connector want to stand together---find ways to get closer to other people,to find common ground that they can stand on together.

-the value of  the qualities that will assist you to connect with others:-

#1# Appreciation allows for differences in people and considers them interesting

#2# Sensitivity knows about personal feeling and quickly adjust to the moods of others

#3# Consistency has the quality of being 'real',not phony,and gives only sincere compliments

#4# Security doesn't try to be 'top dog';it knows it isn't an automatic loss when others win.

#5# Humor laughs at itself;it is not oversensitive.

IF YOU CONNECT WELL,YOU MAY END UP WITH MANY FRIENDS.