Forgive Me.....

> Forgiveness is one of the biggest human skills

> Forgiveness is another feature that sets up us apart from animals

> Forgiveness make us far more sophisticated

> Forgiveness is also a very personal judgement on a situation

> Who forgive openly often appear to have the moral high ground

> Forgiveness... come from the heart for it to be genuine

> Be forgiving....to strengthen your personal power core

> Be forgiving....to avoid miscommunication to occur

> How can you ever forgive other people actions or words?...it depend on you.YOU KNOW BETTER!

> Actually,we all judge other people all time.....other people may be passive,aggressive,manipulative etc

> We always compare to ourselves.... one of the following is the value of judgement you usually
make:

(1) I'am RIGHT and you are WRONG

(2) I'am WRONG and you are RIGHT

(3) I'am WRONG and you are WRONG

(4) I'am RIGHT and you are RIGHT

Number (1),(2) and (3) ...not a healthy state......you must study your weakness...NEED TO FORGIVE EACH OTHER

Number (4)..this is the heathiest state.It is the state that we are able to forgive.

> Forgiveness...will create the situation :

I'am OK,you're OK

This is the healthiest state of all.
It demonstrates balance and and acknowledgement of equality,in addition to mutual respect.

> Without forgiveness...the following (UNHEALTHY and VERY SAD) state will occur:

1. I'am OK,you're not OK

2. I'am not OK,but you're OK

3. I'am not OK,you're not OK.

> It is not always possible to forgive but where you can,you should,if only for your own health and wellbeing.

> Remember,we all walk the earth together and need to rely on each other from time to time.LET NEGATIVE FEELINGS TO GO and LET THE BAD FEELINGS TO GO,be honestly feel!......so one person forgive another......please forgive me.